"Good relationships are good for you. People in supportive, loving relationships are more likely to feel healthier, happier and satisfied with their lives and less likely to have mental or physical health problems. Most people want to have a stable long-term relationship but the statistics show that it is difficult to achieve. One in three first marriages ends in divorce as do two in three second marriages. Recovery from a marital/relationship breakdown is usually slow."
In fact, it's been said that if your relationship ends after 5 years, you probably spent the last 2 1/2 breaking up! DAMN
"It often takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to put their lives back together again. After splitting up, many people say they wish they hadn't. Four out of ten people regret their divorce five years later and say with hindsight that they think it could have been avoided."
Hmmmm now think about what i have mentioned before about NOT RUSHING into another relationship when you are separated or newly divorced!! hmmm indeed..
So you ever give it much thought? I mean ever think about "If we would have worked at this a little harder maybe we would still be together" ...have you??
ok maybe a reason for the break up was BAD SEX!! It happens, whether it was bad or just not enough!!
Brush up on your sexual Qutoient!!
Here is mines:
20-25 'Yes' answers = High SQ
You understand that sex and sexual relationships are complicated things that need openness, honesty and sensitivity to nurture and enjoy them. Look closely at the few 'No' answers you have. Can you put your essentially positive attitude and sound understanding about sexual relationships to good work over these few issues? Apply any relevant suggestions from chapter one (Sensational Solutions) of Dr Pam Spurr's book, Sensational Sex and from Sensational Sex Talk (chapter four), to these areas..
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/sex/talksex/articles/0,,173_705701,00.html
Ok to assist us all in deciphering the V DAY Dilemma :) here are some helpful hints that might help you with mis cues!
ok hows about a good position for after he has provided you with those flowers and candy:
http://choosers.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/perfect_position/?k1=category&k2=1
well suppose you just cant figure this guy out? Here you go! :
http://choosers.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/guy_decoder/
Finally:
I was talking in a forum on mingle city the other day (michael baisdens site) and I was very impressed with a young womans take on a bunch of things. Matter of fact i thought her stance on some issues was pretty familiar. I would soon figure out why. I talk to her a little more and discover that she is going to support Romney who just dropped out, it also turns out that she has little faith in the democrats currently vying for the presidency. We talk a bit more and then I also discover that she is a staunch republican and conservative. So I mention to her that the person they fear the most (republicans and conservatives) is OBAMA. she doubts that and doesnt see him as a threat. I mention some of the conservative radio hosts that do, and she was not familiar... Ok now Im like how would you not know these folks? I continue and then find out that she has been parroting most of what she knows from pundits on the news shows..hmmmm lol .. so basically I thought I was dealing with a SAAVY intellectual and it turns out i was dealing with a political midget! Has that ever happened to you?
Black History programming: "Prince amongst SLaves" AWESOME 4 stars.. PBS check it out
