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Sometimes, we as humans fall victim to our lust and desire. It can be a difficult at best situation, yet at times it truly sheds light on the people whom we thought we could love and trust. There are so many variables to cheating and adultery to cover in just one bloggy. So I will just hit on two and let the commentary run its course.
I just so happened to be sleepless after a long night of "fever watching"
I turned the channel and omg, MAURY was on, the king of Cheating and DNA paternity tests..hhahahaha.. now before I cover this, I want to share a lil known fact about paternity and cheating. The womans body has a built in defense mechanism against "Foreign" sperm. So if the boyfriend or husband is active with his partner, and she takes on a new partner (one night stand, or a hook -up) then that sperm is treated as foreign matter and will be consumed by secretions within the vagina. TRUE STORY... SO typically a one night stand doesn not usually lead to a baby, in most of the cases it is the man who has been there the longest and whom her body is use to. Dogs are different, a bitch can birth pups from different males in the same litter. So now when imwatching Maury I always choose the man who has been with her the longest. Yet usually someone is not telling the truth about how many times they actually slept with the other person. My dear people, when you cheat you open up all the doors to possibilities of STDs or even unwanted pregnancies.. now to the point..
1 - two women are involved with the same man. They are not deep friends yet they all know each other and are civil. One woman knows that the other woman is dating/seeing the man on a regular, yet she still sleeps with him. Is this cheating? and more importantly, who is cheating - the man or the other woman or both of them?
2 - two men who love a baby they both believe is theirs, the mother does not know because the relationships overlapped and she was sleeping with both men at the sametime (ewwwww). Neither man knew this at the time, yet they know it now. The man in her life now believes the child to be his and the ex thinks it is his, they both are great dads to the baby..What should the mother do (if anything) to rectify this?
hmmm indeed... i basically say this, that if you are dating someone, and you have entered into a relationship where you both believe that you are IN A RELATIONSHIP, then you have no business "Hooking up" on the side. The other person who is enabling you to do so, is just as guilty if they know you are in a relationship! Best thing...if approached and you hear all of the blah blah blah.."look handle your bizness and when you are done with that one , good luck with the next one,cause Im not having it, if you were willing to get with me while you were with so and so, then you will do the very same to me at some point and I dont need the stress..buh bye"
hmmm on the two dads.. I think the woman has to get the tests done soon as she can to establish the relationships going forward. it will help the child and also establish responsibilities. Now if the non biological is a really good person and truly loves the child, then of course he should be able to visit as he always has...just be straight on why he is there and who he is with the child.
basically adultery is not something you have to do twice to know it is something you dont want to ever get caught up in again. SOrt of like sticking your hand over an open flame, you dont have to do it again to know that it hurt and was hot the first time right?
what are your thoughts
JJ
