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james' posts with tag: a good man
 Welcome to you all, recently I have had the dis-pleasure to have read many blogs from women who had issues with supposedly GOOD MEN. It got me thinking on what were some common mis-conceptions about Males, Men, and Good Men.
It seems that so many of you ladies have been dealing with "lesser Males" that when you do come across a man who does what he is suppposed to, you consider him a GOOD MAN. On the contrary, Men do what they are supposed to and good men, are those exceptional and extraordinary Men that stand out from the rest. If a man is paying his child support, he doesnt get extra credit, thats what he is SUPPOSE TO DO! Now if he does that and pays for private schools, and healthcare on his own dime, then well yeah that is a little more than normal. If a man opens the door for you and is courteous, hello again thats what he is SUPPOSE to do! Going the extra mile would be if this man continues to act this way with all women because for him women deserve such respect. Thats still what he is suppose to do as a gentleman yet many stop at just their wives or girlfriends..this is a common courtesy that should be extended to all women.
A man who has a job and pays his bills, a man who is only with one woman (when he has a woman) etc etc.. thats not extraordinary that is what a man is suppose to do! So what makes for an exceptional man, that would throw him into the GOOD MAN category? You tell me......
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