Numba two - The Questions men ask....

not what you think, women typically complain about the fact that most men online only ask you questions that revolve around SEX. Well I use to ask some pretty good questions to get a feel for the person and their actions. If you got these questions in your mailbox then you could bet that I was now interested in getting to know you just a little better...I will offer these up to you ladies again ( i once wrote a bloggy about this and only gave you a few of the questions..) answer these and dont worry about what others have written.

1 - Whenyou move through the tv channels at home, where do you always stop at?

2 - Have you learned from your choices, or have your choices made you numb to life?

3 - Do you dress for success?

4 - How many times a week do people ask you..."Why are you still single"

5 - Have you made a decision in the last year, that is embarrassing?

numba 3 - the letter of the day!

Date: 06/18/2007
Subject: Charity Case, I think NOT!

Hi Steve and Shirley- I consider myself an attractive and confident woman but for some reason I have been feeling like a jealous insecure woman. Previous to meeting my husband four years ago I was in a long term relationship of which children were conceived, however I was never jealous and asked for my jealous mate at the time to get out more and have fun separately because I feel like people should be able to enjoy their friends company as well as their mates. (I don’t know if me being a Sagittarius has anything to do with that feeling.) My ex hated that idea but eventually he did begin to go out and give me just a little bit of freedom. Eventually, I realized that his jealousy and controlling attitude was too much for me so I broke off the relationship. He always told me that his mother said that nobody was going to want me with three kids but they were wrong. My husband seemed to be the opposite of my ex. He likes to see me go out (though now I have matured and don’t really like to go out too much) and he likes to go out too. Sometimes he stays out too late which seems silly to me considering he does not drink but he talks a lot so I guess he’s just out running his mouth. He’s a very outgoing, handsome and charismatic person. He shows few signs of jealousy but for some reason it seems as though he likes to make me jealous by telling me stories of his new coworkers and other (no name brand) women who have said I’m lucky to have him because not many men will take in a woman with children. I don’t think these comments are necessary for me to hear. I prefer not to hear these comments they make my blood boil. So what I had children before I met him! AND he did not take me in. I had my own house, car, degree and a good paying job when I met him. I make more than him but who cares because I love him. I never had to be lonely because I’m nice on the eyes (looks and body) if you catch my drift. I don’t know if it’s him or them but these folks are acting as though I am a charity case. I get so upset with him when he tells me this charity crap because I feel as though this is a mind game. I feel like at times he’s trying to build his self up and tear me down and keep me from befriending his female coworkers but I’m not sure why. He mentioned that he has to tell me stuff so my head won’t get too big… I think that is crazy because I adore him. Why would he need to make me feel like a charity case? Is it because my possessions were far more appealing than his? Shouldn’t a man want his woman to feel confident and sure of their relationship? If not, wouldn’t I be prone to pick up any man that would have me? He knows my children are a very sensitive issue for me because for many years I had people telling me what I couldn’t have because I had kids so early. I had to prove folks wrong and I devote my entire life to providing for them. I don't need ANY charity.... The kids love him and I love him and he loves us too but at times I’m not sure about us. I wonder if he’s playing mind games to put himself on a throne. What do you two think? I like being confident. I like knowing that my man is secure in me and me in him but lately I haven’t been feeling that secure. Now I'm wondering what he is doing when he goes out. What should I do? Sincerely, Knocked off the Pedestal We're in our early 30's and he has no children except mines. His ex of several years had no children. She has made comments too, let him tell it. Steve doesn’t read too much between the lines it is what it is… LOL

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