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james' posts with tag: pass on the sex
 welcome to the weekend bloggy....
just a few quick things today:
CNN is broadcasting the attack, the brutal attack of a white teenager on a Baltimore bus. This attack was violent and could have ended up with the womans death. I totally believe a hate crime was comitted. On the other hand, I'm a bit confused at HOW FREAKING FAST IT MADE THE DAMN NATIONAL NEWS!!!.. Gee a blackwoman is abducted, gang raped for days, made to eat feces, and urine, and all the while is being called racial slurs, and we BARELY HEAR about it other than as an aside not worth more than two sentences. I think both acts are hate crimes and that the perps should be dealt with...all perps to include the BIASED media coverage TOO!
anyways - - you have a wonderful date, and this person can freaking kiss GOOD! You agree to go back to their spot, and when you get there, the homes aroma kind of makes you feel like WHOA...then you notice a bit of clutter in the place, hell most folks are busy and dont have time to have an EMMACULATE home. The living area is together just the den and some of the kitchen..you understand that...but thats still not the sexual deal breaker..that comes as you enter the bathroom!! You see it is suspect at best, and the bedroom superadjacent to it, looks like DAMN. Still you are not detoured. Until you spot some very MANGY underwear on the floor. Now your out the door...ewwwwwww this scenario can be re-wound and played for both sexes.. what i wnat to know from all of you today, is what are some Sexual Deal Breakers you cannot possibly get past, when visiting someone's home you would LOVE to be intimate with.
finally - - Ive been kind of in a retrospective and reflective mood of sorts lately. I'm really wondering if I am truly ready for a relationship for more than a week or two months. Sometimes you can over analyze things to the point where you are never ready. Yet I believe that my mistakes in the past have truly affected how I view my present. How I trust women , and want women to trust me. I just think my refinement has run its course and that I need to seriously consider the possibilities once and for all. Is that a good thing??
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